Have You Quit On Life? Or Is There A Fire That Burns Inside That Keeps You Going?
I was out all most of the day today I went with a friend of mine to an auction this evening. After that we went around to his house and we were chatting for hours. Afterwards I was feeling a little peckish so I went to a local Curry house to get something for dinner. As I did not have any time earlier on in the evening, when I was there I heard someone talking to me over my shoulder. At first I thought it might be a Drunk but then I realised it was someone who used to go to the same school as me.
When I looked at him I could hardly recognise him even if his face was similar all his hair was completely white and he was pretty much bald. He asked me what I was doing with myself and I told him that I am marketing products and services online, the fact of the matter is I went to pretty shitty school. It was a comprehensive school as I was not a big fan of school and hated revision and school work, especially maths and English. Since I was about four years old I have always wanted and desired to be a millionaire, and I made a decision a long long time ago that I would do whatever it takes to achieve that goal..
The thing about going to A school that was not such a good school is that people would treat you as if you are stupid! And what actually happens to many of those people is that they actually started to believe it. In fact the guy I was talking to this evening, took a job in the council cleaning the streets, I think it was probably the brain washing about being stupid or the fear of not having a job and been able to support the family that probably made him do it.
I would say the early mornings the cold negative thoughts and the rough work, not to mention drinking alcohol to try and forget about it at the weekend, Have took its toll on him over the years and although I do have the odd grey hair I probably look about 10 or 20 years younger. The thing is I actually really enjoy what I do and going to work does not seem like a job to me. In fact I could happily work all weekend and still feel great and I often do.
The thing is my passion and desire drives me and that is much stronger than any words any loser can say to me, You have got to remember like crabs in a bucket people will always want to bring you back down their level, and only you can actually give them permission to do that.
No matter what anybody says to me whether it be insulting or just negative brainwashing, I don’t really care because I know what I want and I have made that decision, and I do not give anyone permission to stop me from doing what I have got to do to get where I wanna be. I know a lot of people who were in my school who believed that they were stupid because their parents and or their teachers told them that. Quite truthfully I really didn’t give a shit about what anyone told me, I had things that I wanted to do and there was nothing anyone could do to stop me.
Now 25 years on I see my kids who went to a really good primary school and Grammar school academically they are smart and have a great memory unlike me. They don’t have to deal with the kind of name calling racism and religious mental behaviour that I used to live with on a daily basis and that is great. The thing is no matter where I went to school or what anyone thought of me, I have travelled, done lots of entrepreneurial projects which where a success and will continue to get better at what I do while I am still here on this earth..
The thing is it really is never too late for you, but it is a decision that you have to make yourself. If you decide that you can do it then you can. If you decide that you’re stupid then after a while you will start to believe it is true,and it will become a part of everything you do.
So what decision are you going make? About your life, about your health about your business. . Are you going to take action or are you going to tell yourself a bullshit story and all the reasons why you cannot do it. That of course is entirely up to you to decide no one else.
One thing I can tell you is that if you love what you are doing, other people can see it and it can and will become infectious, It will also help other people to transform their lives as well. One thing I have learned about this business is that people will follow what to do not what you say. It really doesn’t matter what you say if you aren’t actually doing, people see it and they will follow exactly what to do. So if you want to produce other successful Home based business entrepreneur. Then first you need to start doing it yourself and then believe me the others will follow in your path just you watch and see. 🙂