New Year - New Life

New Year New Life

Last year was a crazy year so much turmoil divorce, family breakups and 23 years of marriage ended It happened in August to say I was devastated would be an understatement. For a while it broke me I had a really difficult time accepting it. Then eventually when I realised how little the people I cared for cared for me I got cured.

Where there was love feelings thought desires care there is nothing just like an ice cold stone, all those feelings of hurt victim-hood dissipated as If I had put them all into a brick and dropped it in the water to the bottom of the sea, here I am in 2026 I am the guy that I was 23 years ago albeit with a bit of wear and tear on my body and some new information on relationships.

I have had a lot of stuff to deal with and there are still a lot of changes that have to be made but there was a time a few months ago when I felt like I was sinking, thankfully due to the resilience of my body and mind I am here again ready to rebuild my life, Rebuild my income rebuild my relationships and my health and thankfully making a lot more money than I did a few months ago.

2026 is not only going to be a New Year for me but it is going to be a completely new me in every aspect of life, And although life is no easy task I am ready for the peaks and troughs which lie ahead of me.

Looking back on everything I have no regrets I have brought 4 Men into the the world regardless of what some of them think or feel about me I took on that responsibility and completed it, and never at any stage shied away from it which is something that many other men and fathers do not do.

Right now I sit at the dinner table alone but I also decide my own day, no more school runs, no taking my wife to work or to her friends, no nagging about what we are going to blow money on It’s just me with my own peace and inner calmness 100% Drama free.

I am sitting here at the moment in my writing class in Belfast in peace and tranquillity writing this.

I have been busy in my day to day life and have neglected my blog for a bit but will be back again here with more stuff in 2026 I may be gone for a while but not forgotten 🙂

So what big changes have happened or are happening in your life right now feel free to share them in the comments below

And have an awesome successful New Year